5 easy steps: How to speak effectively

February 3, 2012 by  


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Writing can be an intimidating skill to learn, but at least you can go back and edit your words if they’re not right. Anyone who’s ever put a foot in his or her mouth (that would be all of us) knows that speaking can be an even bigger minefield.

Here are five easy steps to help you speak more effectively in person.

1. Don’t Be Afraid of Silence

Cops and reporters know one surefire method of making someone spill their guts — being quiet. Most people feel so awkward during silences in a conversation that they’ll start rambling and blurting things out. If you have something to say, say it. If you aren’t sure if you should say something (even something as innocent and rambling as “ah, anyways, so I guess…”) give yourself three seconds to think about it.

2. Ask Positive

One job I had at a major daily newspaper consisted mostly of wheedling information out of sources. The number one rule was “never ask negative”. Ask, “You couldn’t do X, could you?” and the answer will likely be “no”. Ask “Could you please do X?” and your likelihood of “yes” is much higher.

3. Speak Positive

In the same way, say what is possible, not the many things that aren’t. “I can meet you Wednesday”, not “I can’t meet you on Monday, Tuesday or Thursday. How about Wednesday?” Starting with the negative can lead to rambling and confusion. What day were we supposed to meet again?

4. Be Wise with Your “Sorries”

As a Canadian, I love saying “I’m sorry” — it’s what I usually say when someone steps on my feet. But it can make you sound like you’re always doing something wrong and it leads to rambling. Use it wisely and genuinely.

5. Escape the Valley of the Raised Inflection

If it’s a statement, don’t say it like you’re asking a question. Because when you do? You sound like this? And unfortunately, many of us have this problem now?

The usual advice to rid yourself of a raised inflection is to constantly correct yourself until the habit is broken. I battle my raised inflection by taking a breath in the middle of a sentence. Not sure why this works, but it does.

(My “Canadian raise” however, remains. I have nothing further to add aboot that.) What are your best ideas on speaking face to face?

Blackberry PIN use has city administration on hot seat

January 28, 2012 by  

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Here’s one for the “Is Office Email Dead?” file.

The Ottawa Citizen recently discovered that senior city staff are using Blackberry PIN messages to communicate with each other instead of email. The city has a policy on “responsible computing”, the Citizen reports:

“The rules warn that outside email systems, like Gmail or Hotmail, aren’t allowed because they’re not secure, and also that employees’ superiors have the right to monitor their email. PINs aren’t covered.

The rules also say that electronic messages of all kinds can be important records that the city is obliged to keep, to document how decisions are made and to answer access-to-information requests.”

In response, city officials said that PINs are used mainly to communicate quickly with each other — something not always possible when each staffer is deluged with emails on a regular basis. They also point out that if they wanted to do something top secret that wouldn’t be documented by emails, they could’ve just phoned each other up or met in person.

Read more here.

There’s only one tip on body language and business

January 24, 2012 by  

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Globe and Mail commenters recently savaged “Ten simple and powerful body language tips for 2012“, originally a Forbes.com article.

The article’s suggestions included:

- hold “high- power” poses (such as feet up on a desk with your hands behind your head or standing with arms and legs spread apart) to stimulate testosterone and confidence.

- “to increase participation, look like you’re listening” That’s a direct quote.

- Smile genuinely. (with a detailed description of what a genuine smile looks like, so you can practice being genuine in the mirror, I guess.)

Commenters had a field day giving their own suggestions in response to an article that focused on poses instead of attitude.

“Good lord, that’s terrible advice,” wrote one commenter about the feet-on-desk power pose. “Unless you’re the CEO, don’t do this.

“Agee 100%,” replied another. “When I walk in on somebody in that pose, I assume that they don’t have enough to do.”

“Holding your arms out and spreading your legs wide to make yourself appear as large as possible is also an effective tactic for warding off an attack by a bear,” observed one commenter. “You should note, however, that sometimes this technique just serves to pi$$ the bear off and it takes a bite out of your a$$.”

In comparison, Todd Smith’s explanation of body language on his blog Little Things Matter observes that body language is a reflection of our thoughts and feelings.

To make an actual difference in what your body communicates to others, you need to be aware and in control of your mental state. The only worthwhile tip for positive body language is to be in a positive state of mind.

“Forget the gold painted plaster and get at the source,” said one of Smith’s commenters, echoing the Globe and Mail readers who argued that being sincere is better than taking a “sincere” pose.

Can you tell when someone is faking body language? Does it irritate you? Or does it make you feel sympathetic to someone who just may be shy or nervous?

SOPA, PIPA and the Battle of the Corporations

January 18, 2012 by  


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The fight over SOPA/PIPA is an epic battle between freedom-loving, open-source netizens and the giant, evil corporations who want to crush all that is good.

Right, right?

Not really.

I am not a supporter of SOPA and PIPA. Like most opponents of the bills, I do agree with fighting online piracy, and I feel that the current DMCA is pretty reasonable. (The mere mention of it has certainly been enough to deal with the ding-dongs who have stolen my content over the years.)

But this is not (simply) a case of power being put “in the hands of corporations” and only your Facebook status update can stop it. Yes, many of the opponents of SOPA and PIPA are plain home-spun Internet folk like you and me. But you know what? The US government doesn’t give a crap about us and our love of YouTube.

They care about YouTube itself, which is part of a corporation. They care about the signatories on a Nov. 2011 letter sent to the US Congress — AOL, eBay, Facebook, Google, LinkedIn, Yahoo, Twitter, Mozilla. These zillion-dollar corporations made their point that SOPA/PIPA will damage an important part of the economy. Now they’re also showing that they have remarkable influence over people (ahem, voters) by encouraging online users to speak out against the bills.

“Corporation” is not shorthand for “evil, greedy pigs”. A corporation is simply a large entity with a lot of weight (and money) to throw around — sometimes for better, sometimes for worse. NBCUniversal and Viacom (among others) have thrown their weight around, but are now challenged by the new digital corporate titans who have their own interests to protect.

To me, “corporate dinosaurs facing younger, powerful corporate newcomers” is the real story behind the clash over SOPA/PIPA. “Soulless business-suits vs. ragtag digital warriors” does sound better, but it’s not the truth.

It would make a hell of a Viacom pic, though.

3 Reasons Why Business Jargon Might Be Necessary

January 17, 2012 by  

When writing about Careerbuilder’s 17 Most Odious Buzzwords, I realized that there were a few that I didn’t mind at all. I thought “next steps” was pretty simple, “elevator pitch” rather poetic and “proactive” is one of those words which is too commonly used to be banished.

In fact, there are several reasons why jargon might stick around:

1. Sometimes jargon saves time

Dan Roddy of Learning Rocks describes a school AGM he attended where an official apologized for all the educational jargon, which Roddy thought completely justified. “Had the Head to speak all the acronyms out in full and explain every last word to us newbies we would not have covered as much ground,” he explains in his post “In Defence of Jargon”.

Having covered school board meetings, I understand completely. The many programs which fund schools, guide curriculum and measure students’ progress are complicated enough. Having a shorthand for them speeds up time if everyone knows what it means.

2. Jargon can be code words to enter a certain club

Jargon can foster a team environment, whether in one company or in an entire industry. You see it in the military, among police officers, among techies, among restaurant workers. Why should business professionals be any different?

When jargon functions as a “code word”, it lets someone know that you have (some) knowledge of their field. When I interview someone in a field I am comfortable with (like health care) I will introduce an acronym as soon as it is practical to do so. This lets my source know that they don’t need to explain basic terms and concepts to me. It builds rapport and speeds things up.

3. Jargon sometimes becomes accepted usage

In the 1982 tween novel Macdonald Hall: The War with Mr. Wizzle, a killjoy new teacher tries to ruin the vibrant life at a boys’ school by bringing in a big computer. The students are especially indignant over his use of the term “input”, which none of them have ever heard.

Twenty years later the popular Canadian novel underwent a major rewrite, given that the idea of computers being unknown and boring hadn’t aged well. I’m guessing they also took out the section where kids needed the term “input” explained to them.

To our eternal delight and distress, the English language welcomes almost any word which wins a popularity contest among its speakers. Sometimes, jargon makes that leap.

In the 1949 AP article “Business Jargon of Today Can Get to Be Confusing”, a business reporter assures readers that a new economic dictionary will precisely explain the terms inflation, deflation, hidden inflation and scab. It also outlines a concept called “psychic income”. In the 21st century we call that “job satistfaction”. So take hope that sometimes new jargon is easier to understand than the old, and occasionally things become clearer with time.

Need QR Code ideas? Here are three great QRC campaigns

January 12, 2012 by  

2012 is supposed to be the year of the QR code, but not everyone has figured out how to make their QRC provide value to customers.

Looking for ideas? Here are three great and innovative ways companies have made their QR codes stand out.

Tesco’s South Korea subway campaign

What makes it great: Convenience. Mind-blowing convenience.

I actually had this idea first. Exhausted in the subway station, hungry but with a lack of groceries at home, I would dream of being able to touch the posters of food I passed in Toronto’s PATH system and have them appear at my house.

Tesco improved on my idea (which involved magic powers) with QRC-embedded posters of groceries on the wall instead. South Koreans scan each picture with their smartphones and the food is delivered to their homes. Click above for a demonstration.

Ethical Bean’s Back of Bag Story

Why it’s great: builds Ethical Bean’s eco-friendly, fair-trade brand, provides unique information, showcases the company’s social responsibility efforts

When you scan the back of a bag of Ethical Bean coffee, you are treated to pretty much an A&E Biography of your coffee. “This QR code contains the unique story of your coffee–from where it was grown and who picked it, to cupping, scoring and roasting information,” writes the company on its website.

Ethical Bean even takes their QR code beyond smartphones — typing in the number underneath the code into an online app lets you see the same information from your computer.

Heinz Ketchup’s “Our Turn to Serve”

Why it’s great: Engages customers, builds customer goodwill, showcases company’s social responsibility efforts and charity work.

Customers could scan a code on specially marked bottles of America’s favourite ketchup to send a digital postcard to US troops. Heinz would also make a small donation to the Wounded Warriors project for every message.

But even the best marketing idea needs near-flawless technical execution — over at Consected blog, Phil Ayres found Heinz’s QR code unwieldy for older smartphones. Read his analysis of the problem and suggestions for improvement here.

The possibilities of a QR code seem endless. What are some of the best uses of QR codes you and your smartphone have come across lately? Which are the worst (or most boring) ones?

Top 17 awful business buzzwords and their alternatives

January 9, 2012 by  

In December, CareerBuilder.com released the 17 most odious business buzzwords as decided by a survey of 5,300 people.

Here’s the list in descending order of offensiveness, along with their definitions and what someone thinking outside the box might say instead. Also check out which words I actually don’t mind. I make my case for which ones we should keep and which ones will outlive the cockroaches in a later post.

Outside the box 
What it means: creative, creatively
What to say instead: creative, creatively

Low-hanging fruit
What it means: an easily attainable goal
What to say instead: the easier goals, the simple things

Synergy 
What it means: better value or better results from combining resources or using teamwork
What to say instead: better results through teamwork / combining resources

Loop me in 
What it means: keep me updated
What to say instead: keep me updated

Best of breed
What it means: the best of a certain type of software, hardware or business
What to say instead: the best

Incentivize
What it means: motivate, strongly encourage
What to say instead: motivate, strongly encourage

Mission-critical 
What it means: critical, the most important
What to say instead: critical, the most important

Bring to the table 
What it means: has or have
What to say instead: has or have

Value-add 
What it means: an extra or enhancement to a product which is either free or low-cost
What to say instead: An extra or enhanced feature

Elevator pitch 
What it means: A quick, succinct definition of an idea, business or product
What to say instead: I actually like the poetry of “elevator pitch”, the idea so compact you could recite it during the seconds you spend in an elevator.

Actionable items 
What it means: Tasks or objectives that a business can complete on its own, immediately
What to say instead: The things we can do now, the things we have control over

Proactive
What it means: Show initiative
What to say instead: I don’t mind proactive either, actually.

Circle back
What it means: Come back to
What to say instead: come back to, return to

Bandwidth 
What it means: The time or ability to perform a task
What to say instead: I’m not able to do that right now (instead of “I don’t have the bandwidth”)

High level 
What it means: the big picture
What to say instead: overall, the big picture

Learnings
What it means: lessons
What to say instead: lessons, what we’ve learned, so far we’ve learned

Next steps 
What it means: things that need to be done next
What to say instead: I don’t mind this either, actually.

Sources: johnsmurf.com “Where business jargon goes to die”, online dictionaries merriam-webster.com, the freedictionary.com, businessdictionary.com and learnings.org “where corporate buzzwords go to die”

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Crisis, Communications and a Blue Christmas

January 4, 2012 by  

Oh, dear. Christmas may be partly to blame for the difficulties Twitter and global intelligence company Stratfor currently find themselves in.

Twitter is facing (and avoiding) questions over a briefly-verified Twitter account for Rupert Murdoch’s wife Wendi Deng-Murdoch. The account turned out to be a spoof set up over the Christmas holidays — some suggest the prank might have slipped through the gates due to reduced holiday staffing, but don’t bother asking Twitter if that’s the case, because they’re not in the mood to share. Neville Hobson takes a look at the questions over Twitter’s verification policy and their continued silence over the matter here.

Meanwhile, David Henderson at Ragan.com outlines the case for why Stratfor’s compromised security earns the award for hack of the year. Wincingly bad security and terrible crisis communications from a company specializing in intelligence analysis, whose clients are governments, world leaders and CEOs . Oh, and all those clients’ financial information, including credit card PINs, were also taken, according to unconfirmed claims by the hackers.

The hack occurred on Christmas Eve. Another case where a holiday season skeleton staff at a tiny (and easily found) internet hosting company made the difference? It can’t be that much of a factor given Stratfor’s loosey-goosey approach to security. It doesn’t help that the company’s website is still down as of January 4, and their communications have been through their Facebook page. Click, read and cringe here.

So apart from finger pointing and handwringing, what do we learn from these crises? Check out Gil Rudawsky’s advice on who businesses should be talking to (constantly) when something blows up real good. (Hint: there are nine groups to keep in mind, and the media’s not one of them).

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How Businesses (& Customers) Will Communicate in 2012?

January 3, 2012 by  

Now in the shiny new year, businesses are (hopefully) thinking about where their communications focus should be in 2012.

Here are some of the broad trends we’ll likely see along with some resources to help you get up to speed.

Mobile

Expect to see more QR codes as those little black and white boxes in the corner of ads get increased attention from consumers. At Small Business Trends, Lisa Barone notes that there was a 400% increase in mobile searches this year, with some shrewd companies sending promotions to customers’ smartphones when customers were likely to be waiting in line on Black Friday.

Check out Barone’s advice on avoiding rookie mistakes in your mobile advertising here.

Video

David Hsieh, VP of marketing and entertainment for Cisco, predicts that video will account for 90% of all internet traffic over the next three years. Currently it’s at 51%. Constant Contact’s Gail Goodman explains how a business can start communicating with customers through video here while Ashley Zeckman at Ragan.com gives some advice for “PR pros” here.

Social Media

Most companies are already using some form of it — 72% of US businesses and 83% of Chinese businesses do, according to a recent survey conducted by KPMG. But the challenges of social media ahead include engaging customers, especially customer reviews, as Google and potential customers place increased importance on public, positive feedback.

Marketing expert Heidi Cohen gives a simple rundown of social media from A to Z here and has a more advanced checklist for small- to medium-sized businesses using social media here.

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5 Easy Steps: How to Write a Thank You Card

December 30, 2011 by  

Many people find writing thank you cards as enjoyable as having a tooth pulled, but here are five easy steps to writing a great thank you card:

1. It Is Never Too Late

A common way to deal with thank you cards is to procrastinate until weeks, or months, have passed. At this point you figure it’s too late to send a card. It would probably be rude to send one now, right?

Wrong. Get your butt in that chair and start writing. It will be quick. It will be painless. You’ll have built up several relationships, working ones or otherwise. You can reward yourself with chocolate or SportsCenter afterward.

2. Be Brief

Length does not always equal sincerity or thoughtfulness. Start with “Dear So-and-so: Thank you so much for…” A rambling opener such as, “Dear Bob, I decided I wanted to drop you a quick note to let you know how much…” is not necessary. Those cards don’t have much space, you know!

3. Acknowledge the Gift Specifically

What delicious chocolates, beautiful flowers, great party! The only exception, of course, is money, which is always a “generous gift”.

4. Explain Why the Gift Is Useful

Everyone in the office loved the chocolates. The flowers brightened your day and made customers smile. The party was a wonderful opportunity to reconnect.

And if it was a “generous gift”? I recommend something like, “As you can imagine, it will be very useful to our small business/busy family/hard-working group of volunteers.” Some recommend describing what you’ll use the money for, but I find the Tackiness Potential much too high in that. “I think I’ll spend the money on Farmville, Mafia Wars or lottery tickets. I haven’t decided yet.” Thank You Card Fail.

5. End with the Future

End your thank you card with something about both yourself and the reader. The easiest way is to mention an event or time in the future you will meet at, or hope to meet at. For thank you cards written in the holiday season, this line is easy: “Happy new year and a successful 2012″.

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